Can You Please Your Female Partner with a Small Penis?

A reader asks Dan and Jennifer, “How can I please my male or female partner even though I have a small penis?” Their answer is good concerning how to please your female partner if you have a small penis, but concerning how to please her with a small penis – not so much. For more about that, click  here and here.

How to Predict the Size of a Penis

Can you predict penis size by body size, size of hands, or feet? Dr. V gives women – both those who prefer a big one and  those who don’t – some helpful hints how to size up a man while he’s still got his pants on.

Perverted, inquiring minds want to know: how deep can a man’s love go? While the vag is designed to accommodate the shape of whatever penis it gets poked with, guys, you can’t blame us for fantasizing about your phallus. Sure, we all know size is almost completely irrelevant when it comes to actually orgasming, especially since roughly 80% of women only get off with clitoral action. Frankly, we Frisky gals have certainly seen a range of shapes and sizes, and have never been discouraged. I swear, Dr. V is no size queen! I’ve had not-so-hot sex with men who didn’t know how to bank on their impressive endowments, and have had gigantic O’s from little dudes who’ve proven less can really be more. But still, for some reason, dicks are a big deal. So, here are some helpful hints on how you can size up a man while he’s still got his pants on. Read more

Penis Extenders Shown to Increase Length by One Third

Research published in the British Journal of Urology has found that men who wore a penis extender for six months, were able to increase the length of their penis by up to 32%. Alas, the increased length wasn’t accompanied by any significant change in girth, which most women find more important to their sexual satisfaction.

Men who wore a penile extender every day for six months were able to increase the flaccid length of their penis by up to 32% and their erectile function by up to 36%, according to an independent clinical study published in the March issue of BJU International.

The Authentic Women’s Penis Size Preference Chart

Jonathan Peretti at The Huffington Post listed The Authentic Women’s Penis Size Preference Chart as the tenth most viral web story of 2008. Women think this chart is really funny, but men don’t seem to like it. If you feel strongly about this topic, you can participate in the penis-size debate forum.

What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I’m among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I’ll explain why I do.

It’s been said that the brain is the body’s largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling “full, ” which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The “vaginal ache,” a desire to be “filled up” that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.

How to Add an Inch to Your Penis Naturally

Even though only one out of three women prefer penises seven inches or longer, many men consider a big penis the key to happiness . In fact, one man with a small penis angrily claims that his shortcoming is the only reason he can’t find happiness with a woman since, otherwise, he’s a wonderful man and quite a catch (or so he says). One possible solution for men who want a bigger penis is penis enlargement exercises.

I know that penis enlargement exercises work for at least some men because a former lover – after I commented of the size of his penis  – confessed that he had used them to increase his penis size an inch and a half. I don’t know what he specifically did, but Roger Miller outlines a penis enlargement routine to add an inch to your penis naturally. The fact that he is providing a “free trial” speaks volumes about his confidence that many men could benefit from penis enlargement exercises. As he points out, what do you have to lose?

Let’s say the average penis size is 6 and a ½ inches. And that’s a generous average. How would a guy with that starting size feel if he were told that, with work, he could gain one inch in length?

Pretty happy. Very happy. In fact, most men would be completely pleased with a one inch gain in length. They wouldn’t much mind if that’s the most they could physically gain.

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So…that first inch. Let’s make that your main goal. That is what you’re going to aim for. Now, how are you going to achieve it? Here is how. Read more

European Penis Sizes Compared

Seduction Labs publishes a table of the biggest penises in Europe by country.

In new research from the ‘Institut fuer Kondom-Beratung‘, 10,477 men from 25 European Union member countries were asked to measure the length and girth of their manhood in its erect state.

The results were that the survey found men around Europe vary dramatically, with the French, famous for their letters, who measured up with the longest and thickest penis, whilst Greeks had the smallest average measurements. Read more

How to Have Anal Sex with a Big Penis

Can a penis be too big for anal sex? Probably not, though size does matter. However, a big penis doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. With proper preparation, enough lubrication, the right position, and relaxation techniques, having anal sex with a big penis can be comfortable and pleasurable.

1) Preparation. One way to prepare yourself for anal sex with a big penis is butt plugs. Get one butt plug as large as the diameter of your partner’s penis and one or two smaller ones. Use the smaller ones as “trainers,” if necessary,  and work up to being able to insert the largest one. You can wear a butt plug during the day to prepare for anal sex that evening, or wait to insert it prior to foreplay. If you wear it while having vaginal sex, he will love how tight it makes your vagina feel. Once you’re able to insert and wear the large butt plug, penetration with his penis should then be fairly comfortable.

2) Lubrication. Since the anal region is not self-lubricating, lubricants are essential to reduce friction and discomfort during anal sex, and even more so with a big penis. A good choice for anal sex is Astroglide, a super-smooth, long-lasting lubricant that can be found at many neighborhood pharmacies. Use as much lube as possible. You really can’t use too much.

3) Position. Though doggy-style may be the most popular anal sex position, it’s not necessarily the best one if your partner has a big penis. Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. Another good position is side anal or “spooning.” The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear. The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.

4) Relaxation. If you have pain when his penis is inserted, have your partner stop, but not pull out. He should just hold his position while you take several slow, deep breaths and relax the anal muscles. Pushing out (as you would for a bowel movement) will help to open those muscles and allow them relax against the penis. The pain should subside though you may still might feel some discomfort from having something pushing into you and being stretched open. Try to stay relaxed as he continues to push his penis in further. Any time it hurts, have your partner stop while you take slow, deep breaths, push out, and relax until the pain subsides.

If the man exercises patience and control, most women will be able to accommodate any size penis using the above techniques. The incredible sensations of fullness for a woman and tightness for the man make anal sex with a big penis worth the extra time and effort.

My book Anal Sex Secrets is a guide to great anal sex for both anal sex beginners and for couples who are searching for new things to try. To find out more about it, click here

70 Things Not to Say to a Man with a Small Penis

Women are much more interested in a man’s personality and looks than the size of his penis, but men can experience real anxiety even even if they are average-sized, so here are 70 things not to say to a man with a small penis.

1. I’ve smoked fatter joints than that.
2. Ahh, it’s cute.
3. I’m sorry.
4. Never mind, why bother.
5. Who circumcised you?
6. Why don’t we just cuddle?
7. You know they have surgery to fix that.
8. It’s more fun to look at.
9. Make it dance.
10. You know, there’s a tower in Italy like that. Read more

What Is a Good Size for a Penis?

Times Online sex experts Suzi Godson and Dr Thomas Stuttaford discuss what a good size for a penis is, at what point does size do more harm than good, and how important the circumference is for stimulation.

SUZI GODSON

Toughie. I guess a guy with a smaller penis finds it easier to pee in, rather than on, the toilet, but the long schlong is more versatile for genital origami. Seriously though, when it comes to sex, an enormous penis is an asset only if you are planning a career in porn. Women, like men, come in all shapes and sizes and our genitals tend to be proportionate.

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DR THOMAS STUTTAFORD

… A large penis, although it may prompt immediate admiration and have a pronounced wow effect, won’t make much difference to a man’s ability as a lover. Sexual skill depends more on what is between the ears than the legs. The only dubious advantage of a monster penis is that it could lead to a career as a porn actor. Read more