Mr. Perfect Made Easy: 23 Ways to Be the Man She Wants

Tip 4: No polyester sheets. Easy enough, right? Sarah Miller tells Men’s Health readers what else women want.

1. You can put down the weights and the protein shakes. You might want us to be perfect looking; we simply want you not to be fat.

2. Replace all of those hideous size-extra-large T-shirts with something that actually sort of fits. We think you might be a medium.

3. Never allow anyone who listens to baseball on the radio to cut your hair.

4. Purchase sheets that don’t contain polyester and that are white. Read more

Jada Pinkett Smith Gives Sex Advice

Jada Pinkett Smith, who is married to actor Will Smith, advises couples to spice up their sex lives by making love in cars or at work.

Jada Pinkett Smith says having sex at a friend’s house keeps relationships alive.

The actress, who is married to Will Smith, also suggests couples can revive their flagging love lives by getting intimate in their cars or workplaces. Read more

How to Have More Sex

Want to have more sex? Who doesn’t? Men’s Health lists ten common obstacles, ranging from endless bickering to a houseful of kids, and how to overcome them and have more fun.

Nearly everyone wants more sex—men and women. So why isn’t it happening more often?

There are hundreds of reasons. But Men’s Health surveyed 1,000 women and combed through the latest research to narrow down the list to the ones you see on the left.

You’ll find most of the constraints of modern society—time demands, distractions, stress, energy levels.

Recognize any from your life? Click on them and find out how you and your partner can overcome those obstacles—and get back to having more fun! Read more

How to Break Out of Your Stale Sex Routine

When sex becomes routine, sex stops. Jasmine Leigh at AskMen.com tells how to get it started again.

When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, the passion can ebb for the simple reason that you both know exactly what’s coming. It could be the best and dirtiest sex anyone has ever had, but it doesn’t matter: it’s the same as it was last time. It doesn’t mean you care any less about your partner, or find them any less sexually attractive, it just means you need to break the spell of sameness, and break out of your stale sex routine.

Admitting it’s time to change your stale sex routine
Acknowledging that a change is needed is the first step in your recovery from a stale sex routine. Read more

The Best Ways to Compliment a Woman in Bed

It would seem to be common sense that complimenting a woman in bed would make her more eager to please, but it doesn’t seem to be to many men. Flattery between the sheets could be just the aphrodisiac your woman needs to turn her into a naughty vixen.  Isabella Snow gives men several sexy compliments they can use in bed, the best time to use them, and for the truly clueless, she even explains why women would appreciate each compliment.

Compliments just aren’t as commonplace as they used to be. It’s really a shame, considering how receptive the average woman is to hearing them. Flattery is a great big plus in the eyes of any female, provided it sounds genuine. And if a man is willing to explore this arena in the bedroom, it can do wonders for his (and her) sex life.

The following phrases are sure to inspire; just be sure to mix them up once in a while. We don’t want to diminish their potency, nor do we want you to rely too heavily on any particular compliment. And don’t worry; this doesn’t require line memorization or rehearsal. The key is to keep it short, sweet and sincere. Read more

Same Room/Separate Room Swingers

Swingers have a choice between sex play in the same room or separate rooms when they have sex with a someone other than their partner. Kasidie magazine examines the advantages and disadvantages of each.

The ‘same room / separate room’ question is one that all members of the Lifestyle community will face sooner or later as they grow as a couple. Most initial Lifestyle experiences begin with same room sex because, ‘Well…it just happened.’ However, as you dive deeper into the Lifestyle, you find yourself in new situations that present the opportunity for privacy while playing, and this new option can cause a bit of difficulty within the relationship as each person’s insecurities bubble to the surface.  There are lots of pros and cons for each option, but here are a few: Read more

22 Things You Should NEVER Say or Do During Sex

At The Frisky, Simcha lists 22 things that you should never say or do during sex.

Once, I got drunk at a wedding and took home a yuppie. He looked so cute in his white tux and charmed me into dancing to Earth, Wind & Fire. Needless to say, I couldn’t wait to take that stallion for a ride. But, as I unzipped his pants, he said, “Don’t get excited, you won’t be impressed.” A small penis never ruined my good time—until then. Things went from bad to worse. He was a deep-breathing whiner who just lay on his back because, he warned me, “Girls only get off when they’re on top.” Something tells me those other ladies weren’t given any other option—and they definitely didn’t orgasm. There are some things—like selling yourself short and telling someone how to get off—that you should never say or do during sex … Read more