100 Things about Me Sexually

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I got the idea for doing this post from Wendy Blackheart’s list posted at her blog Heart Full of Black. I agree with her that it’s not easy to make a list like this, so, if you think some of the entries are lame, try making one yourself.

1. I started having sex when I was 15,
2. But it wasn’t until my senior year of high school that I really started experimenting.
3. That’s when I first had anal sex,
4. And my first MFM threesome.
5. I’ve slept in the nude off and on since I was a teenager.
6. When I don’t, I wear panties.
7. I go commando sometimes, but not very often.
8. Same thing with going braless – once in awhile, but not very often.
9. I feel really sexy wearing stiletto heels,
10. But I don’t wear them often enough for them to be really comfortable.
11. I love going naked,
12. But I don’t like clothed people staring at me when I am.
13. And the problem with nudist clubs and resorts is that they tend to be full of old people.
14. The most exquisite sensation of sexual intercourse is when the head first pushes past the lips into your vagina.
15. The most exquisite sensation in anal sex is when he pulls out and then slides back in the first time.
16. The in-stroke is intensely sensual.
17. I usually can’t feel it when a man ejaculates into my vagina,
18. Though I can always feel him shoot into my anus.
19. My favorite vaginal sex position is the Pelvic Slide.
20. My second favorite is missionary with raised legs.
21. My favorite anal sex position is lying on my back.
22. My second favorite is lying on my stomach with my hips raised a little on a pillow.
23. I’m pinned down, so I just relax and let him do me.
24. I hate professional porn,
25. Though I like some amateur porn.
26. When it doesn’t try to imitate professional porn.
27. For one thing, I don’t get “cumshots.”
28. If a man pulled out of me and started jacking off, I’d kick him out of bed.
29. Nothing is more exciting to me than the moment when a man’s penis stiffens and his balls tighten during fellatio,
30. Except maybe feeling his semen shooting and splashing inside my mouth.
31. Swallowing has always seemed to me like the natural conclusion to sucking a penis.
32. It’s my reward for a job well done.
33. I can’t help it, but a man who shoots a big load seems to be more of a stud to me than a man who shoots a small one.
34. I like thick, creamy semen better than thin, watery semen.
35. I know the reasoning behind semen retention in Tantra,
36. But I feel cheated when a man doesn’t ejaculate during sex.
37. Deep throating a penis while I lick his scrotum is a power trip,
38. And irrumatio isn’t just pleasurable for the man either.
39. Lying back and letting a man slide is penis in and out of your throat can be very sensual.
40. I enjoy the sensation of having something large stretch and fill my vagina.
41. My orgasms are more intense when my vagina is filled to capacity. .
42. That’s why I love being fisted.
43. Vaginally, not anally.
44. MFM threesomes are as intense as it gets sexually.
45. I love double penetration,
46. Though I haven’t been double penetrated as often as I’d like to have been,
47. Because arranging an MFM threesome isn’t as easy as you’d think.
48. Using a sex toy for double penetration is just not as exciting as two penises.
49. I’ve never had all three holes filled at once.
50. I’ve never had an FMF threesome,
51. And I don’t want to if I’m expected to have sex with the other female.
52. I’ve watched other women having sex,
53. But I’ve never wanted to have sex with them myself.
54. I could tongue kiss another woman.
55. In fact, I have.
56. And she was a good kisser, but it was sensual, not sexual.
57. I could even play with another woman’s breasts,
58. Though it would feel weird to have small, soft hands playing with mine.
59. But I could never touch another woman’s vagina.
60. And don’t even mention going down on another woman.
61. Since I don’t have one, penises fascinate me.
62. I especially love thick penises that expand my vaginal walls and rub against my G-spot.
63. Long, thin penises can be the worst of both worlds.
64. They can bump your cervix, which sometimes hurts,
65. And they don’t fill you up the way a thick penis does.
66. Pegging or Bend Over Boyfriend is my new favorite sex act,
67. Though I wish I could feel with a dildo what a man feels with his penis.
68. I’d like to know what that sensation feels like.
69. So far, I’m batting a thousand  persuading boyfriends to bend over,
70. Though two at-bats don’t make a season.
71. I love it when a man ejaculates from anal stimulation without any penile stimulation.
72. It’s like female ejaculation.
73. It’s not supposed to be possible.
74. It still kind of freaks me out when I squirt.
75. I enjoy rough sex, but not too rough.
76. I’m not really very kinky.
77. Though I had sex on South Beach once.
78. Pegging and threesomes aren’t kinky, are they?
79. The best thing I ever did for myself sexually was to follow a program of PC muscle exercises.
80. I know my strong PC muscles are the reason I have orgasms with intercourse.
81. And the look on a man’s face as I milk his penis with my vaginal muscles is priceless.
82. Men love the vaginal squeeze even better than deep throat.
83. I don’t have sexual dreams very often,
84. Or at least not dreams that I recognize as sexual.
85. I’ve never been sexually assaulted,
86. Though I’ve done things sexually that I didn’t really want to do at the time or with that particular man.
87. But that’s just part of life.
88. You go along to get along sometimes.
89. Since high school, my longest sexual dry spell has been six weeks.
90. I can always get laid if I want to,
91. Though not necessarily laid well.
92. It took a while before I could tell the difference.
93. A woman doesn’t have to be skilled at sex.
94. Being willing and enthusiastic is enough for most men.
95. Even now, I’m still proud of myself when a man climaxes during sex with me.
96. Is there any bigger disappointment than when your partner can’t get an erection?
97. It’s even worse than premature ejaculation.
98. At least then you get to enjoy the moment of penetration.
99. Nowadays, I’d rather have no sex at all than bad sex,
100. But lately I haven’t had to make that choice.