Tracey Cox suggests five ways that women can spice up their sex lives, from threesomes to spanking.
Just because he’s always joking about it doesn’t mean he really wants to try it. Faced with it happening in reality, all sorts of fears creep in.
Suggest it by: pretending you saw a magazine story about threesomes and then ask, “What do you think of them?” If he doesn’t react with horror, confess you’d like to try it, then talk about the reasons why it appeals, loading on the sexual compliments. If you decide to go ahead, always practise safe sex and make rules on what is and isn’t allowed. Don’t take being left out personally and always pay your partner more attention than the third person. Read more