What to Do If Your Man’s Penis Is Too Big

For a woman, a big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. However, many women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Below are three suggestions for dealing with both size issues.

1) Extended foreplay
As part of female sexual response, arousal brings with it physical changes that help deal with a bigger penis. The vagina can expand by up to 200 percent during sex, so size is seldom an issue unless a woman isn’t fully aroused. To accommodate an erect penis comfortably, some women need up to 20 minutes of stimulation. If you’re used to intercourse with a partner who has a small or medium-sized penis, you may have been able to comfortably have intercourse before you were fully turned on. If your partner is bigger, you may need to wait until you’re very aroused before moving to penetration. Also, anticipating discomfort causes your muscles, including your vaginal muscles, to tense up, making penetration more difficult. If he gives you a long, sensual massage before intercourse, it will help to relax your muscles and also turn you on.

2) Add lubricant
If you don’t already use lubricant during vaginal intercourse, now is the time to start. There are dozens of different brands of lube, and they all make sex more comfortable by making it more slippery. Some women say they don’t need additonal lube because they lubricate a lot on their own. However, if you’re having intercourse with someone with a big penis, using extra lubricant is always recommended. Experiment with a few different kinds to see if a thicker or thinner lube is best for you, and, if you’re prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin. Don’t forget that lubrication can come and go, so be sure to keep adding the slippery stuff as needed.

3) Sex positions
Sex positions are another way to deal with discomfort due to a partner who has a large penis. The best sex position will be one that allows you control over the depth and angle of penetration and offers as much movement as possible. Avoid positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g., rear entry) and favor positions that give you more control.

The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and crouch over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only taking as much of his penis as you can handle. Another position you can try is to have him sit on a chair with no arms. Then straddle his lap, facing either toward him or away from him, and use your feet and thigh muscles to pump away. If you do use a position that allows deep penetration, such as rear entry (doggy style) or man-on-top (missionary), remember that the farther apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too deep, it can also make for some amazing clitoral/penile friction.

During sex, tell him how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels good. This doesn’t mean carrying on a full conversation while having sex; simple words, such as “deeper” or “not so deep,” “gently” or “harder,” “faster” or “slower,”are usually enough to get the point across and make sex more enjoyable for both of you.

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30 Responses

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  11. Good advice — from the woman’s point of view.

    On top, with control is good for the woman. It keeps the man from going deep with all he’s got– but both he and she are not experiencing what the long dong offers. Many women with experience really want the penitration sensation. With a long dong available– women should try to accommodate it– the vagina does stretch to take it all and the orgasms that result can be mind-blowing.

    But a word of caution. Hitting the cervex with the tip of the dick is an interesting experience for the man– but kicking the cervix aside or punching at it can be painful for the woman (although again, some come to desire the feeling). The pushing pulls on the legiments holding the cervex. In some cases the cervix gets under the glans and can really drive the man to new levels. It seems to depend upon how the cervix is positioned, and how much it withdraws normally with intercourse. Women with a cervix that is tipped (a normal variation) will experience a long dong differently than other women.

    Another observattion, after fifiteen or more minutes, or with multiple sessions in an encounter, the cervix can be roughened and it will bleed some, giving the spotting appearance of like a light period. I have never had a complaint about pain from this, although moving the cervix can leave a sensation (you hear about it in the phone call from the car on her way home). The bleeding can be disconcerting to the woman, if she realizes what it is. Otherwise she may think sex with the long dong is causing menstral bleeding (the common response).

    Experiences of a nine-inch dong with mostly petite women.

  12. This one really works! I’ve used it myself.

    Get one of those jelly-looking masturbation sleeves. They’re about four or five inch long looking tubes of squishy rubber, usually with texture on the inside, with some creepy looking mouth or butt at one end. Not the full “fleshlight” but the cheap kind you can get at an average sex shop.

    Get your boy hard (natch) and work it onto his cock. There should be holes at both ends, and you push it down all the way down until the head pops out the end, then down to the base. Depending on his length and the sleeve’s length, you should now have the bottom 1/4 to 1/2 of his dick covered with what is now your pussy bumper.

    Climb on. (This works better with penis recipient on top) You can now sit down on his cock with full force if you like, and while the “bumper” compresses, it also a) keeps some of him out of you and b) keeps the part of him that is out of you wrapped with tight, squishy texture that feels good.

    It really works!

    Also, while everyone’s experience is different, I have to disagree with the person above that getting your cervix whacked around doesn’t hurt. I have a cervix, and when it gets rammed with a particularly long cock, it does hurt.

    (example of the sort of sleeve I’m talking about at this url – store.babeland.com/men-sleeves-pumps/blossom-sleeve )

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  14. Wow! Great advice. One of my exes was extremely thick, and it seemed silly to complain to friends, “um, well, his dick is just too big.”

    Glad to know I wasn’t the only one in this predicament.

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  21. Good article. I’m a man on the well endowed side (a hair under 8″ measured on top of the shaft by 5 3/4″ around). I’ve found, as you note, that women differ a lot in their reactions to this. It is sometimes a problem on deep penetration and requires real care. By contrast, some women really enjoy cervical stimulation and especially getting into those fornical areas. The main problem with being thick is that many women don’t handle it well orally. This can lead to being the recipient of non-enjoyable oral sex, but the main problem is that it can make a woman feel bad and really kill a mood. No fun at all as feeling good is the goal after all.

  22. I’d be interested in a follow up to “What to Do If Your Man’s Penis Is Too Big” for handling above average size anally.
    I have had and enjoyed anal sex with past lovers but with my current man it has been a major issue for me because of his extra size. On occasion I have been able to handle it long enough for him to orgasm but as for me the enjoyment is not there like it was in my past relationships.

  23. hi! i have a fiancee coming, he revealed that he has a 12″ cock when erected. i’m 5’3″ tall he is worried if i can take this size. what do u think? pls help me solve this, i love him!

  24. Nelia, with proper arousal, your vagina can stretch to accommodate virtually any penis size. Don’t attempt penetration until you’re very aroused and wanting him inside you. Get into the woman-on-top position because it lets you control the depth and force of penetration. Then, before inserting his penis, apply additional lubrication, such as K-Y Jelly or Astroglide (my favorite).

    Just follow the tips in this post, and you’ll be fine. Enjoy!

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  28. the best way to deep throat a very large and thick penis is lay on the bed on your back with your head slight over the end of the bed that wii make yor throat straight let him slide his penis in your mouth and let him to push slow til the whole penis is all the way down your throat til his balls touch your lips. that how i done it with my husband and he got 14inches and extra thick oenis

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