I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
If you approach your lover’s orgasms with the goal of “giving an orgasm,” you may have the wrong mindset, says Lee Jenkins, author of The Female Orgasm Black Book.
Mindset
Your state of mind (and your partners’) can really make or break the chances of her having an orgasm.The Wrong Mindset
How do you approach your lover’s orgasms?You probably enter into sex with the mindset and goal of “giving an orgasm.”
It’s this approach that leads too many guys on a wild goose chase for the “perfect” strokes and techniques. It leaves you blindly seeking out every tip and trick out there, furiously testing them out on your lover.
I hate to break it to you, but this is the wrong mindset if you truly want to “give” an orgasm.
It sounds contradictory, I know. But it’s true, and here’s why… Read more
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