7 Tips for Swallowing Semen

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Even though swallowing semen may help prevent depression and lower blood pressure, many women (including some who enthusiastically perform fellatio on their men) still don’t like to swallow. Women who don’t swallow usually blame their gag reflex or the taste of semen for their refusal. However, swallowing has deep, symbolic significance to men. By swallowing, a woman indicates her complete acceptance of him. Spitting out his semen is a symbolic rejection to many men.

If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, here are seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste:

1) Swallow in the morning
If gagging is an obstacle to swallowing for you, you should know that the gag reflex is least active the first thing in the morning. Try giving your man fellatio when you first wake up. This is the best time to practice swallowing with a minimum of gagging. Once you have had a few successful attempts, you’ll become more accustomed to swallowing semen and the gagging will stop.

2) Avoid the taste buds
The main complaints about the taste of semen are that it is bitter and salty. The taste buds on different areas of the tongue are sensitive to specific tastes: sweet on the tip of the tongue, salty and sour on the sides, and bitter at the back. When swallowing semen, you can minimize the unpleasant tastes by trying to keep it away from the corresponding parts of your tongue. Since the “bitter” taste buds at the back of the throat are the most problematic, the solution is either to overshoot them by deep throating or by pooling the semen in the front of the mouth and then swallowing quickly in one gulp. Make sure the semen spends as little time as possible lingering near the back of your tongue.

3) Deep throat
As mentioned in the above tip, when you perform deep throat, the head of the penis is in so deeply that it extends past the “bitter” taste buds that are on the back of the tongue. As your man reaches the moment of ejaculation, take his penis as far into your throat as you can, swallow as his semen hits the back of your throat, and continue swallowing until he’s finished. You’ll never taste it if you can avoid getting it on your tongue.

4) Use flavored lubes
There are a number of flavored lubes available that may help you disguise the taste of semen. Pick the flavor that you like the best and spread a generous amount all over his penis before putting it in your mouth. This has the added bonus of making fellatio, especially deep throating, easier because you don’t have to produce all the lubricant yourself.

5) Pop a mint
Try sucking on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately before performing fellatio. The mint will kill the taste of the semen when he ejaculates. Also, many men enjoy getting a tingle from mint or menthol products on their penises.

With the first five tips, you can hide the fact that you don’t like the taste of his semen. With these last two, however, you’re obviously trying to disguise the taste. With a little finesse on your part, though, he won’t mind.

5) Wash it down
One way to keep from having to taste semen when you swallow is to wash it down with something. If you have a glass of water by your bedside, after he ejaculates, simply reach for the glass of water and wash the semen down the same way you would a pill or capsule. (Remember those health benefits.) Try not to move your head too much, other than tilting it back, in order to minimize the sloshing effect. Done correctly, you’ll never taste it.

7) Just a spoonful of sugar
Instead of taking your “medicine” like a good girl with only water to wash it down, try following Mary Poppins’ advice to disguise the taste with a “spoonful of sugar.” You can easily use a mouthful of chocolate syrup or honey to chase down the semen and get the taste out of your mouth. Using food as part of fellatio also causes you to subconsciously associate sucking a penis with swallowing something that tastes good. Eventually, that association may make swallowing semen “neat” taste good to you.

If a man has to worry about ejaculating, feeling that it is an imposition on the woman or the cause of unpleasantness, it creates tension. He cannot fully relax or fully enjoy his climax. A woman who swallows puts her partner at ease and allows him to relax and enjoy one of the most intimate and pleasurable sex acts she can perform on him.

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42 Responses

  1. This is an excellent article. Although I don’t object to the taste of semen, some people do and that is why this article is so appropriate. Frankly, i like the silky feel and taste of semen in my mouth and enjoy savoring the flavor for awhile.

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  3. many of my female friends tell me that what the guy has eaten can have a very big effect on the taste of the cum. apparently pineapple makes it sweet! dont know anymore. please ladies…

  4. Nothing makes my husband happier during sex than me *wanting* him to cum in my mouth and swallow it. It’s such a little thing, really. Even if I didn’t enjoy it, I think I would still do it – it’s literally a 10 second deal. The benefits are so worth it.

  5. I agree that , “Even if I didn’t enjoy it, I think I would still do it – it’s literally a 10 second deal. The benefits are so worth it.” A real woman finishes what she starts.

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  9. Honestly the 10 seconds are worth it because I can honestly say that as long as the sex is good in a relationship and the two get along, most men are happy.. I have been in relationships before were she wouldn’t swallow and give me what I wanted sexually so i cheated or left. I’m not going to waste my time with someone who i can’t enjoy sexually.

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    I completely agree, am in one of those right now :S… havnt cheated yet but relationship will def. not last long.

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  16. I have never had trouble swallowing,. It sort of came naturally after giving my first blow job in my early teens. After he finished ejaculating, I found myself with all this fluid that had come out of his body into my mouth because of what I had done. It seemed rude to spit it out, so I swallowed. I’ve always swallowed since then, and not swallowing never really crossed my mind.

    I think many women think that what they do with the semen is irrelevant. After all, the guy just ejaculated, so the deed is done. Then they complain that men only care about the physical aspect of sex. I think that swallowing is of psychological and emotional importance for men. Like you say, if they know from the beginning that you are going to let them ejaculate in your mouth and then swallow, the whole blow job is going to be more enjoyable for them.

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  22. I have never minded the taste, and relly like the idea of completely pleasing my huband- the only trouble I run into from time to time, is that it’s much chunkier at certain times,….when it’s too thick it will make me gag. Any tips on keeping him ” Fluid”????

  23. You can’t do anything. Diet, exercise, and frequency of sex can all dictate how thick or watery his ejaculations are.

  24. i’m back Svetlana. thanks so much for the initial advice. i really want to swallow better, but it’s not easy! over the holy weekend Marcus, my new man, & i decided that i should start swallowing. i sucked his shaft & tried to swallow 3 different times. it did not go smoothly! on friday morning, i sucked him in his bed. i opened my mouth when he said he was ready & that 1st spurt was strong. it hit the roof of my mouth, but the real problem began when the next 4 spurts landed in the back of my mouth. my eyes watered & i sorta gagged. the next day i serviced him on a couch & that 1st spurt seemed to spray rite into my throat. I managed to not puke, but i spit up a lotta saliva. what am i doing wrong?? he really does spray a lotta sperm. i counted 8 spurts on the next feeding attempt. he is getting annoyed that i cannot hold his spermload like his previous chic did. i need a way to save it in my mouth so i can show his semen supply to him. he is not happy so far. can i get advice to learn his swallow style faster?? thanks!! any advice can go to amanda.262010@hotmail.com

  25. great ladies u complain of taste right after blowjob. what if u have to swallow right after a ass f–k. How would u complai then. i was married to a finest of men ( my late husband) who would luv to bareback on me and shoot my mouth. u got to make him feel accepted, ub by swallowing his semen. thats what areal women do. i have no problems

  26. best thing is to hope he cume a whole lot in your mouth next roll the cume around in your mouth for three minutes and the cume will get real thick. lean your head back as far as you can and let the cume drain slow down your throat til all the cume is in your belly and it will suprise you how sweet his cume was

  27. yes i wants to swallow cum please make me a mail tourjohn@yahoo.com i am from nepal

  28. Please guide me in easier way so that my wife could swallow cum easily..& willingly.

  29. pls help me ……. is there any health effect on swallowing my cum?

    and what time is best for man to be releasing?

    Thank you

  30. There is if you’re diseased. Otherwise, no. I’m not sure what you mean by what time is best for man to be releasing.

  31. I have never found any man give good advice on taste. I discovered per chance that if I beat it off (without cumming) some time before the date and used toothpaste (Colgate is least abrasive) and a little water as the lubricant, it made my penis taste good. I found that once the woman discovered the smell and taste of such a “clean” and great-tasting penis, they often not only wanted to such my penis, but would continue long after a came. It was a shock and pleasant surprise that every man should know.

  32. What a big deal about eating your guy’s semen, I just swallowed it for the first time and it wasnt yucky. I did like it and I had it for a while in my mouth then I ate it. The taste wasnt that bad and I didnt need water or anything else to pass the taste. I will do it again a thousand time just to see my man’s face. Thumbs down for whoever had say that semen tastes ugly.

  33. Wow! This is really hot and turning me on!!! Any ladies wanna practice their skills on me?!?!?! Please email me at labiamonger666@hotmail.com….Thanks! BTW, all the ladies say my dick is big and my cum tastes great so no worries there, hahaha!!!

  34. It took me a very long time to swallow a man’s semen . I always thought that as long as i didn’t swallow i was not gay . My male friend taught me how to suck him off by starting on me first. After finally accepting that i craved sucking dicks, my friend and i got into some heavy 69ing . I always knew that if he came before i did , i would be so hot , that i would accept it and swallow his sperm. sure enough , one night after not having sex with nelson for a few years , i was so hot that as we 69′ed -he -started coming and i began swallowing it like i always dreamed when i masterbated. as he filled my mouth with his salty gism , i thought to myself , wow , i’m finally swallowing his cum . after that , we got together every few months , i always ended up having to beg him for all i was worth . he begged me to suck me first . i said no 3 times , then as he begged again i said ok i’m gonna watch him suck my dick . he began sucking me off but it didn’t feel good at all so after 5 minutes i began to fuck his face . i lay on my back and began to pump my dick in and out of his mouth . i felt it building up and was starting to shoot when he pulled away and my sperm shot through the air toward his lips. he then sucked in real fast and like a spaghetti noodle , he drank my cum in midair . what a surprise ! after that i hated him . it made me think that he was dirty . then onenight he picked me up and drove to baton rouge , where he was playing guitar at a dance job. i was so horny that all night long i thought about sucking his dick . when the dance job was over , we walked towards his apartment and i told him , ” i’m so horny i want to suck you off ” this was the first time that i really let go . his dick was tiny that night so as he took his shorts off i took it in my mouth and wrapped my tongue completely around it and went down real slow taking it all in my mouth . he let out a moan from deep in his throat that let me know that he was enjoying my mouth giving pleasure to the max. he then turned around to take my huge manhood in his mouth as we began to 69 . i took hold of his dick and rubbed it on my lips like it was a chap stick . i was accepting my homosexual desire now and doing what made me feel good . it didn’t take long for me to cum , and he swallowed it all in pure enjoyment as i heard him moan as i shot my load in spurts in his warm mouth. after i came i had him stop because it tickled too much . so he says , you’re not gonna finish me off ? and i told him , i don’t want to be a queer . and there is not a day go by that i wish i had finished him off , thus accepting my bisexuality . but i was ashamed , i didn’t want to really be a queer like my cousin jose. nelson is dead now and i will never be able to taste his dick and drink his warm cum again . i think of him every night as i masterbate . i dream that he is coming in my mouth as i lie beneath him and hold his ass tight in my hands like we did the last time we ever made love . i let him kiss me deeply and shove his tongue deep in my mouth , i never knew that making love to another man could feel so good . eddie

  35. if i love to suck dicks and lick a man’s balls and asshole am i gay ?

  36. If you don’t like sex with women, you are, but if you like sex with both mrn and womrn, you’re bisexual.

  37. Give up with the “health benefits” angle. Everyone knows that stomach acids kill semen dead when it’s swallowed! It’s only potentially any real use from that aspect if rubbed into the skin, and even then it only appears so because it’s drying and tightens that area of skin until its washed off.

    There’s just one argument for this , swallow if you can, and if you want to, or find a man who accepts you for who you are.

  38. If you plan to swallow, I suggest you keep a can of sprite by the bed. Sperm tastes like snot and bleach! You will need something sweet to wash it down!

  39. I love swsllowing cum. I love the taste, the bigger the load the better. Big cocks or small cocks I suck them all. And the main reason is to get that cum out of them. You will never find me missing a drop. I would never put something in my mouth to change the taste. I wish I could find something that taste like it as I can’t get enough. ‘I not just a cock sucker, I’m a cum swallower’

  40. i need to wash it down with soda or soda water. when i do it my husband goes crazy!!

  41. That just Nasty!

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