Why might a woman want anal pleasure and anal sex? One of the main reasons is that there are more nerve endings around the anus than just about any other body part. For many women, anal sex, can be the most effective way for her to orgasm. Anal pleasure can enhance orgasms, it can be the source of orgasms, and it just feels really good if the conditions are right. Here are my top five posts on female anal pleasure. Continue reading
Jack Morin, PhD, author of Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women, lists ten rules of anal sex. Once you learned the rules, my post 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex will guide you to to a pleasurable anal sex experience.
Anal Eroticism is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Yet millions of men and women – straight, gay and bisexual – are experimenting with anal sex. The anus, richly endowed with nerve endings and interconnected with the main pelvic muscles, is the closest erogenous neighbor of the genitals and contracts rhythmically during orgasm. Thirty-five years ago, Kinsey stated that the anal region had erotic significance for about half of the population. In a survey of 100,000 Playboy readers, 47 percent of the men and 61 percent of the women admitted to having tried anal intercourse.
Yet the anal taboo inhibits most people from thinking, talking and learning about the sexual use of the anus. Listed here are the ten things most men and women still do not know about anal sex.
1. Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex.
There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while masturbating or stimulating a partner’s anus during intercourse or oral sex.
Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger – their own or a lover’s – insinuated into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including hetereosexuals, prefer this form of penetration.
Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. [See my post Analingus: The Dark Kiss.] The very idea disgusts some people. Others enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way. Read more
Experts estimate one in four heterosexual couples have had anal sex. The muscles and nerve endings around the anus are highly sensitive and can feel fantastic when touched. Women’s G-spots are easily stimulated indirectly through anal play as well. In order to enjoy anal sex, however, couples need to have some idea of what they’re doing, and to be able to communicate with each other. Interested in finding out how to have anal sex, or how you can enhance the experience? Here are some of my posts on how to have anal sex. Continue reading
Do you want to have anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain about her reaction? Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past. That’s why I don’t recommend asking a woman for anal sex without some careful preparation. Instead of asking her to try anal sex, it’s better to make her want anal sex. Continue reading
My tutorial 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex is an excellent guide to making your first anal sex experience enjoyable and satisfying, and my post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman. Whether you’re just curious at this stage or already willing to indulge your adventurous side, check out these six do’s and don’t’s of anal sex.
Anal Sex. Just hearing those words makes many people uncomfortable, but according to women in a recent iVillage poll, it’s the number one position that male partners ask them to try. Whether you’re just curious at this stage or already willing to indulge your adventurous side, take a look at these six simple guidelines. Read more
Anal sex is one of the most erotic and satisfying sexual practices a woman and her partner can enjoy. Anal sex is a different, tighter sensation than vaginal sex. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while your man is inside you, it can take you to another sexual realm. It’s pretty intense, no matter what, and the increased tightness back there makes it just that much better. Continue reading