Anal Sex: 5 Reasons Why Men Want It

If you’re a woman who doesn’t understand why your man wants to stick his penis in your butt, Brandon Evens discusses the five reasons that men want anal sex:

We’ve come along way when it comes to sex, and we’ve come an even longer way when it comes to anal sex. Gone are the days of thinking that anal sex was something that only homosexuals do; nowadays, 25% of heterosexual couples engage in anal sex on a regular basis.


If you’re still hesitant about giving in to your man’s fantasy of having anal sex with you, perhaps my shedding some light on why he wants it will help. Read more

10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex

Many people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. This is quite simply false. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. Actually, anal intercourse can provide a unique form of pleasure for both men and women. Anal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis.

Generally, for women, the pleasure derived from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot. The anus contains many nerves as well, which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman. If you want to try anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain of her reaction, use the approach I recommend in How to Make Her Want Anal Sex.

If you follow the ten steps below, you can ensure that your first anal sex experience is pleasurable rather than painful. Continue reading