For a good many men, an FMF threesome is their predominant fantasy in life, which is why the Details article “Flirting With Disaster” – about men who find out their threesome-loving ladies are lesbians – is absolutely brilliant. Want your girlfriend to try a little sapphic action? Be careful what you wish for.
… Although it takes more than sexual experimentation to make a woman gay, there’s a particularly cruel irony when a lesbian-obsessed guy gets ditched for another woman. “It is sensationalized—we get off watching two women. But real life does not operate that way,” says Amity Pierce Buxton, founder of the Straight Spouse Network, which sponsors support groups for spouses and partners who have or have had LGBT mates. Buxton estimates that three out of every ten people who contact her group are men—victims of a reality that diverges from the Penthouse “Forum” script. As their mates dirty-dance to Katy Perry’s “I Kissed a Girl,” fixate on the latest LiLo and SamRo pics, and rave about Vicky Cristina Barcelona, even the most sensitive guys are apt to cast them in a few scissor-sister scenarios. The problem is, most men are unprepared for what happens after their wives or girlfriends do a shot of the Tila Tequila punch. “A lot of guys don’t consider the consequences,” says Jonathan Alpert, a Manhattan therapist who has counseled hetero couples confronting lesbian flings. “It can be disastrous.” Read more