6 Mistakes Men Make with Women

WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women. Of the six sex mistakes they mention, here’s the one that I think underlies all the others.

Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women
Paget says there tends to be a “huge disconnect” between men and women in the ways that sex feels good.

“When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn’t feeling the same way for her,” Paget says. “It couldn’t be further from the truth.”

The inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, “it feels like you’re getting punched in the stomach,” Paget says. “It makes you feel nauseous.” Read more

2 Responses

  1. So true. I also feel like many guys overestimate cocksize and the amount of force used and understimate subtlety and light caresses/touching but maybe that’s just me.

  2. It’s not just you. Wilhelmina. Size plus force does not equal great sex.

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