Men’s Fitness surveyed 8,745 women to find what men needed to know to drive them wild in bed. Number three is one that I don’t think men understand, but try it anyway and see if you don’t reap the rewards.
We asked 8,745 women what you need to know to drive them wild in bed. Read, memorize — then practice, practice, practice.
1) “Screw cuddling — let’s fuck.” The majority of women polled listed the top characteristic of being a good lover as “listening to verbal and nonverbal cues,” followed by “not stopping until I have an orgasm” and “asking me what I want.” (A mere 6% considered snuggling a top priority.)
Still not picking up the smoke signals? A good rule to always keep in mind is that if she likes what you’re doing, do not switch it up. “This is one of the biggest mistakes men make,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. “If light little circles to the right are making her moan, keep doing that. Listen with your body, not your ears. If she wants it harder, she’ll lean into you; lighter, she’ll pull away.” Read more