The G–spot is a small mound of tissue, between a penny and quarter in size, inside the vagina. It has a high concentration of sexual nerves and produces hormones similar to those made by the male’s prostate gland. To locate the G-spot, imagine your partner is lying on her back with you positioned between her spread legs. Slide a finger inside her vagina, palm up. With your finger straight back (middle finger is best) you would curve it toward yourself, gently, as if you were gesturing to someone to “come here.” In doing so, the area you press on should be pretty near her G-spot area.
It is possible, with some women, to have different qualities and kinds of orgasms from vaginal, clitoral, anal, and even breast stimulation, though with other women those kinds of orgasms are all pretty much the same. However, a G-spot orgasm is different than any other kind women have. The G-spot orgasm not only feels different, it also causes a woman’s body to react in a different way. G-spot stimulation works better than anything else you can do to cause a strong, prolonged orgasm.
First, the G-spot stimulation often causes a “push out” orgasm. The area around, or “above” (i.e., farther inside) the fingers or penis seems to swell up or to contract toward the opening of her vagina. If you find the right combination of pushing back when this happens, and slacking off to let it push out, you can cause her orgasm to continue happening, long after normal ones would have subsided. Most women who have experienced both also claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. There is often a “pyramid” effect with multiple G-spot orgasms; each one makes the next one feel better and makes almost anything else sexual feel better too.
G-spot orgasms sometimes cause a huge amount (relatively speaking) of lubrication–far more than even the most excited woman gets from “conventional” stimulation. When that extra lubrication combines with the push-out orgasm, you get actual ejaculation. To many women, the first time she ejaculates feels like she is letting her urine flow because it originates almost from the same area. However, it’s almost impossible to urinate while having an orgasm because the urethra temporarily closes up.
Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Here are the best 4 positions for G-spot massage. This video shows one way to stimulate the G-spot.
The intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pelvic floor muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises. Also, for some women, G-spot stimulation is more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it, so don’t worry if you don’t have a G-spot orgasm the first time as long as you’re having fun trying.
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