It’s time to change your bookmarks, feeds, and links.This blog has moved again – for the final time, I hope. After starting at Blogger in April 2007 and moving to WordPress.com in October of that same year, Sex Secrets finally has its own domain. The new url is http://sexsecretsblog.com, and the new feed is http://sexsecretsblog.com/feed. I hope to see you there.
Never in the mood? Prevention magazine’s 13 simple tips for a better sex life will have you craving more.
Can you remember the last time you couldn’t wait to get home and shimmy between the sheets?
Was it last week, last month? Last… year? We get it: Sometimes it’s easier to give into your excuses — I’m too tired, let’s just do it this weekend, it doesn’t even feel that great to begin with. But we don’t need to tell you that sex is essential for a healthy marriage — and also a healthy you. Research shows that a happy sex life can stamp out stress, reduce heart disease risk, and even improve immunity. But enough of the non-sexy talk. Try just one of these libido-lifting tricks today. You can thank us later. Read more
Jada Pinkett Smith, who is married to actor Will Smith, advises couples to spice up their sex lives by making love in cars or at work.
Jada Pinkett Smith says having sex at a friend’s house keeps relationships alive.
The actress, who is married to Will Smith, also suggests couples can revive their flagging love lives by getting intimate in their cars or workplaces. Read more
To many men, any sex is good sex (since they get so little), but more experienced men know that there’s sex, and then there’s great sex. These seven sex moves are guaranteed to thrill even the most sexually experienced man (and make him eager to please you in return).
Men joke that any sex is good sex — and they’re not entirely kidding. They’re biologically designed to be gratified in bed more quickly and easily than we are. But when pressed, almost every man will admit that sometimes sex is better than good. Certain sex moves drive them crazy in the best possible way. Women who know these moves hold the kind of power over men that inspires great art, novels and films. And you don’t have to be lithe or athletic to perfect them. In fact, they’re ridiculously easy to learn.
The seven techniques here are guaranteed to thrill him — and make him eager to please you in return. The couples who’ve tried them can attest to that. Read more
According to a research from Queen’s University in Belfast, a good morning session at least three times a week, decreases the risk of heart attack or stroke by half and a regular session improves circulation, thereby reducing blood pressure. Unlike late night sex – which is not only expected but rather ordinary – getting it on in the morning is exciting and exhilarating. Morning sex could mean the difference between a good day and a great day.
However, your wife or girlfriend, who typically does not peak sexually in the morning hours like you do, may not feel very sexy when she first wakes up. Sarah Stefanson gives some tips on how to get her in the mood.
One of the many differences between the sexuality of men and women is that men tend to enjoy morning sex, while women mostly prefer to keep bedroom activity reserved for nighttime. This probably has a lot to do with what is referred to as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT), which causes a man without erectile dysfunction to have three to five erections as he sleeps. NPT is more commonly referred to as “morning wood” or “morning glory.” Whatever you call it, waking up with an erection is as good a reason as any to initiate a little early action. Unfortunately, your girl may not be in the mood the minute she opens her eyes, but if you approach it properly she will very quickly be just as into morning sex as you are.
Prepare the night before
In order to avoid having to get out of bed in the morning before initiating your early lovin’ you should do some preparation the night before. Read more
Most women will agree that good sexual encounters start with plenty of foreplay, but how do you get your man to give you the sensual attention you need to transition between washing the dishes/getting the kids to bed/straightening up and stripping down? You have to ask for it. Read on for wince-free ways to bring out the shoulder-rubbing, neck-nuzzling, best-lover-ever side of your man.
It’s a simple and, yes, slightly sad truth: Although a new partner works long and hard to show you that he’s a caring, attentive, and affectionate sort who loves nothing more than to give luxurious foot massages and make out for hours on end, in long-term relationships, the action tends to speed up considerably. You absolutely want — and need — more kissing, caressing, and all that assorted good stuff, but the thought of actually coming out and asking him for those sensual moves makes you cringe. Fortunately, no matter how shy you might be when it comes to X-rated topics, we’ve got some very effective words that you can bring yourself to say. Here’s the plan:
STEP 1: Get your motor running.
Before you ask your guy to lavish attention on your various hot spots, you’ve gotta get your mood on. After all, while a single thought — it’s time for sex! — might be all he needs to get started, you (like many women) probably require some transition between washing the dishes/getting the kids to bed/straightening up and stripping down. Start with some small requests like these to turn up the emotional temperature and help you get psyched for making more sexy suggestions later. Read more
Maya Silverman , author of The Erotic Massage Guide, has collected thirty of the world’s best foreplay tips. For example, here’s one from Greece that most men don’t seem to know: “The skin underneath a woman’s breast is very sensitive to a loving kiss and nibble.”
Hand’s up – those of you who thought foreplay was just that ‘Before Play’, i.e. not the real deal. Many of us rush through foreplay with a few kisses, gropes and fumbles – if you’re lucky! 15 minutes later it’s all over and it’s the rush to orgasm and roll over.
If you are one of those people, then you could be missing a whole chuck of the seduction, arousal, and climax process. Getting foreplay right – makes the journey more fun, the pleasure more intense – and orgasm – well – just MIND BLOWING. If you want to be an expert, or atleast the desire to ‘fake’ expert lover status, now’s the time to get your notebook out.
Discover 30 of the word’s best tips.. Read more
Nineteen celebrities reveal their sex secrets.
Celebrity Sex Secrets: Eva Mendes
Eva Mendes reckons travelling can make you horny.
‘I’ve had sex in all 50 [US] states,’ she says. ‘A lot of it was on a road trip I took when I was younger. Maybe it was the clean air.’ Read more
Men’s Health scoured the latest studies, grilled dozens of experts, and polled more than 700 women to come up with this list of 12 sex secrets women wish men knew. For example, did you know about the A-spot?
The G-Spot Has Friends. Find Them
You’re goal-oriented. Good. But the G-spot and the clitoris aren’t the only bull’s-eyes. “The most recent anatomical research suggests that the clitoris is perhaps better described as the ‘clitoral complex,’ where the vagina, urethra, and clitoris all function as a unit rather than as individual parts,” explains Kinsey Institute researcher and Men’s Health columnist Debby Herbenick, Ph. D.
Try working that clitoral complex by hitting multiple hot spots at once. Some researchers believe there’s something called an A-spot, located far inside the vagina on the side closest to her belly button. “Stroke this spot and she’ll lubricate almost instantly,” Cox says. “Put one lubed finger into her vagina as far as it will comfortably go. Use the whole length of your finger to explore the front wall of her vagina.”
Now triple the sensation: Stick both index and middle finger inside her, and stick out your thumb like you’re hitchhiking. It’ll pull your fingers more snugly against her vaginal walls, stimulating both A-spot and G-spot simultaneously. Then use your thumb to also stimulate her clitoris, and gently twist your hand. Read more
A man gives five sex tips to wives and girlfriends that’ll make them more exciting than the “other woman.”
… Listen, this is a plea. We want non-girlfriend sex. We want non-wife sex. But we want it with you. We don’t simply want a change (yeah, we know you like it in x position, but we’ve been doing x for two years!), we want you to be our ‘other woman.’ Here are five ways to do that. Sure, they’re total male fantasies. But in my personal experience, you’re going to like them as well.
1) Tease us. Go down on us, wait until we’re almost at DefCon 1, and then stop. Read more