Oral Sex and Reciprocity

Womanist Musings bemoans the fact that men demand fellatio, but are reluctant to perform cunnilingus.

Many men hump under the false assumption that their dick is the key to multiple orgasms and sexual bliss for women.  How many times have you had a dick waved at you like it was this long awaited prize that you had been dreaming about forever?  Oh yeah a dick, like they aren’t readily available for the asking.

I am going to let all the men reading this in on a little secret.  A guy that is good with his hands and his tongue is a KEEPER.    If you can polish a pearl until a womans eyes roll back in her head, then you my friend will always be invited into a bed.  Don’t be a selfish lover. Read more

69: The Do’s and Don’ts

Get Frank sexpert Sarah Gibson explains 69 the do’s and don’ts of 69, the sexual position that enables both partners and give and receive oral sex simultaneously.

Some people love 69’ing, others not so much. Giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously can be an incredibly sexy experience, but some prefer to concentrate fully on pleasuring one partner at a time. Whether you’re a lover or a hater there are some definite dos and don’ts that everyone should know. Read more

Secretary Accidentally Bites Off Boss’s Penis

This poor woman. A van backs into the car where she is giving oral sex to her boss, causing her to bite off his penis. Making the situation even worse, an investigator hired by her husband to catch her cheating witnessed the whole incident and was the one who called the ambulance. Now both her boss and her husband are going to be mad at her.

A secretary accidentally bit off the penis of her employer while giving him oral sex in a car.

Sin Chew Daily and China Press reported yesterday that while the 30-year-old woman was performing oral sex on the man, the car was hit by a reversing van.

The impact of the crash, China Press reported, caused the woman to bite off her lover’s organ. Read more

69 Etiquette

It’s the yin and yang of sexual positions, and Sarah Stefanson says you need to follow some rules to achieve perfect 69 harmony.

Some people like to give and some like to receive, but with the 69 position you can have the best of both worlds. This position is designed for mutual, simultaneous oral sex. It may be a little more difficult to concentrate on what you’re doing with your tongue when she’s busy at work between your legs, but the novelty of being pleasured while pleasuring her is one that is worth the effort.

When it comes to 69ing, there are some dos and don’ts. In order to make it a pleasurable experience for both of you, check out AM’s 69 etiquette. For the purposes of this advice, we’re referring to 69ing as foreplay, so we won’t cover ejaculation etiquette, which could probably inspire an entire article of its own. Read more

Oral Sex Enhancers: Do We Really Need Them?

Do we really need a product that makes your mouth wet so that you can perform better fellatio? Love Buzz tests Sixty Nine Wet Head.

I… n this Love Buzzer’s youth people said that if you put a lifesaver in your mouth while going down on a guy he’d feel a whole new sensation. Other version we’ve heard include an Altoid or a cough drop. All three were supposed to produce the same result: an added tingle created by the mint or active ingredient in the cough drop. One thing that no one ever mentioned, though, was that a sucking candy produces saliva, a necessary component of oral sex.

A new product is trying to take this idea and sell it. Sixty Nine Wet Head is basically Listerine PocketPaks redesigned for sex: translucent strips that at first seem like plastic, but dissolve when placed on your tongue. The Listerine version is supposed to kill germs. The sex version promises “one little strip on your tongue will turn your mouth into a juicy wet haven. With a mouth so moist you’ll have your partner spinning from your newfound talent.” We get the idea, but does it work? And do you really need it? Read more

10 Fellatio Tips to Drive Your Man Wild

Men love fellatio, blow jobs, sucking or whatever they prefer to call it. Lucrezia magazine has ten tips to make Valentine’s Day (or any other day) special for your man. (And here’s a bonus tip from me: always swallow. It is insulting to your man if you spit out his semen. It is also a turn off.)

Men love blow jobs and when it comes to sex, it is the one thing they repeatedly ask for and the one thing they would really love more of. There are tips, tricks and techniques that can turn a ho-hum hummer into a va-va vroom wild ride. By mixing things up he’ll never know what to expect and you’ll have his knees weak before your lips ever touch him. Most guys will say that any blow job is a good one but if you want to keep him coming back for more and coming for you and you alone try these tips and tricks that’ll drive him wild.

Tease, torture and tantalize
Don’t dive for his penis right away. Just like you, he has many other erogenous zones all over his body. Read more

Tricks and Tips for Great Oral Sex

Savvy Miss tells you to perform fellatio with such skill that you will have him begging for a repeat performance.

Blowjobs. Head. Hummers. BJs. Going Down. Fellatio. Whatever you call it, guys will do anything to get it. Oral sex is as hot and intimate as it comes.

So be empowered! You have his full trust. He’s at your mercy. And you control every moment of his pleasure. Oral sex is the ultimate sexual gift you can give to your guy. So why not give it your all?

Blowjob Basics.
Did you find the pamphlet that came with the guy’s penis the first time you tried oral sex? No? Then I’ll bet you had to figure it out all by yourself.

So let’s start fresh today, okay? Read more

Fellatio & the Backdoor

In this episode of CherryTV, the women share their tongue techniques – pushing the boundaries of oral sex by teasing the anus. Watch Fellatio & the Backdoor.

How to Make Oral Sex Easy for Her

Sarah Stefanson at AskMen.com tells how can you make it easier and more pleasurable for your woman to give you a little oral action.

Going down is generally not a woman’s favorite part of sex, but it is often what a guy wants most. Your girl probably has plenty of excuses to avoid giving you head, most of them valid. So how can you make it easier and more pleasurable for her to give you a little oral action?

Mr. Clean

The most important thing you can do to make her more comfortable exploring your nether regions with her tongue is to clean yourself up. You may have had a shower in the morning, but by the time the evening rolls around you’ve likely used the bathroom a few times and perspired a bit, so it probably doesn’t smell or taste very good down there. For a longer and more enthusiastic oral sex session, make a point of washing up right before it begins. To avoid spoiling the mood, you could incorporate a mutual bath or shower into your foreplay.

Don’t forget to keep yourself neat and trimmed down below. She doesn’t want to have to hack through a jungle of hair to get to the goods. Read more

Performing Fellatio: Fantastic Fellatio Tips and Techniques

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. Every man loves receiving fellatio from his woman, and your man is no exception. It is a great way to give pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. While it’s true that you can please your man by simply forming your mouth into an O and bobbing juicily up and down for a while, the moaning, head-tossing, mattress-slapping, I-think-I-might-be-dying-but-please-don’t-stop whoppers require more sophisticated tactics. Here are my top five posts on performing fellatio.

5 Advanced Deep Throat Techniques
Once you’ve mastered deep throat, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make deep throat even more enjoyable for your man.

Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It
The key thing to remember when learning to deep throat your man is that practice makes perfect.

7 Tips for Swallowing Semen
If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, here are seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste.

Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?
Irrumatio gives a different experience to a man than when he is being fellated by a woman because he’s the one moving, he’s more tense and active, and he’s controlling his experience much more so than in the regular fellatio.

8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild
Consummate skill is required to suck a man’s penis and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.