Same Room/Separate Room Swingers

Swingers have a choice between sex play in the same room or separate rooms when they have sex with a someone other than their partner. Kasidie magazine examines the advantages and disadvantages of each.
The ‘same room / separate room’ question is one that all members of the Lifestyle community will face sooner or later as [...]

One Woman’s First Orgy Experience

Greta Christina, in her latest post at The Blowfish Blog, describes what it was like to take part in her first and only orgy.
I know. The title makes it sounds like a third- grader’s report on their trip to the planetarium. But you know, except for the third- grader part, it was sort of like [...]

When Lesbian Obessions Backfire on Men

For a good many men,  an FMF threesome is their predominant fantasy in life, which is why the Details article “Flirting With Disaster” – about men who find out their threesome-loving ladies are lesbians -  is absolutely brilliant. Want your girlfriend to try a little sapphic action? Be careful what you wish for.
… Although it [...]

5 Ways Group Sex Can Get Your Man to Clean the House

Miss Bliss explains how having an FFM threesome can have feminist benefits for women.
FIVE WAYS GROUP SEX CAN BRING MORE EQUALITY INTO YOUR HOME
1. A CLEAN HOUSE. There is something about a new female lover coming over that gets a man interested in cleaning. Never seen your partner volunteer to vacuum? Didn’t know he [...]

5 Things NOT to Do at a Sex Party

Steph Auteri at YourTango gives orgy advice: what NOT to do a a sex party.
Do NOT ogle that couple in the corner like they’re inmates at the Bronx Zoo.
While voyeurism and exhibitionism have a definite symbiotic place at any type of play party—I love the thrill that comes with the possibility of being caught!—there’s a [...]

7 Potential Consequences of an FMF Threesome

Before fulfilling your threesome fantasy, Sarah Stefanson at AskMen.com says you should take a look at seven potential consequences of inviting a second woman to join you in bed.
You’ve finally convinced your girlfriend to have a threesome and you’ve found a girl to join you. What could go wrong? Well, plenty if you haven’t planned [...]

Are Sex Parties the New Vibrator?

At Tango, Regina Lynn tells what happens when a virgin party-goer spends a Saturday night swinging.
No longer a suburban secret, sex parties just might be the next vibrator, a sexual thrill once kept hidden and now gleefully embraced by women from all walks of life. And like vibrators, sex parties come in more flavors than [...]

Swinger Sex Partners: Should We Try a Threesome or a Foursome?

Some couples are more sexually adventurous than others, seeking threesomes and foursomes. Dan and Jennifer discuss which one is easier to arrange and which is least likely to cause problems in your current relationship.

4 Rules for FMF Threesomes

Threesomes are not like regular sex. If you plan on having a threesome, your relationship will likely be affected by this new experience. Chris Ford at AskMen.com recommends four rules for FMF threesomes.
There’s a whole lot of information on how to arrange a threesome, but there’s very little about what you should do once [...]

Two Things to Watch Out for in the Swinger’s Lifestyle: Klingons and Predators

Kasadie investigates Klingons and Predators: two types of swingers that can reflect badly on the lifestyle.
Klingons and Predators. No, this is not a story about creatures with big foreheads and bad tempers or ones that turn invisible and hunt California governors for sport. This is a story about two of the hazardous types of swingers [...]