4 Rules for FMF Threesomes

Threesomes are not like regular sex. If you plan on having a threesome, your relationship will likely be affected by this new experience. Chris Ford at AskMen.com recommends four rules for FMF threesomes.

There’s a whole lot of information on how to arrange a threesome, but there’s very little about what you should do once you’re in one.

Threesomes are not like regular sex — they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you’re going to be doing, you need some threesome rules.

Understanding these basic threesome rules will help you avoid some common mistakes that typically prevent you from getting the most out of your ménage à trois. There are various types of threesomes that you can enjoy, but we’re betting that you’re hoping for the type with two women, one of whom is likely your bisexual or bi-curious girlfriend or wife. What follows are the basic threesome rules on how to handle such a delectable, and potentially sticky, sexual situation. Read more

3 Responses

  1. (Actually, there were FIVE rules…)

    Rule 1a: The focus should be on anyone but the male. Preferably his partner. She should be at the center of it all…at least the first time. After that…well…then you’re into a ‘relationship’ and that’s the stuff of evolution and negotiation.

    This is what makes the triads I write about work: it removes the whole ‘guy at the center of it all’ crap.

  2. Rule 5 was just the obligatory “safe sex” mantra. It has nothing to do uniquely with threesomes, so I didn’t count it.

  3. Well, as I’m in a contrarian mood today, how’s this for a re-write that strips it down to three rules? LOL

    “Although you may be hoping that the woman will give you 100% of her attention, the truth is that you’re there to please her just as much as she’s there to please you.

    The best way to approach this situation, and an important general rule to follow in all sexual situations, is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.

    Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, So be patient; focus on turning her on and the attention will come back to you.

    Whatever pleasure you get is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex), enjoy everything that comes your way.

    Keeping your hands moving and knowing when to penetrate are important rules for having great sex with your partner.”

    In a nutshell, if you’re a good lover with your partner…and really, SHE’S the judge of that, not you…then you’re probably going to be a good lover in a triad. If you trip and fall in a threesome…guess what? Chances are you’re not as ‘good’ a lover as you might think. Threesomes magnify things.

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