Anal Sex from a Female Perspective

Anal sex is one of the most erotic and satisfying sexual practices a woman and her partner can enjoy. Anal sex is a different, tighter sensation than vaginal sex. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while your man is inside you, it can take you to another sexual realm. It’s pretty intense, no matter what, and the increased tightness back there makes it just that much better.

I still faithfully follow the 10 steps to great steps to great first-time anal sex to ensure that the experience will be pleasurable rather than painful. Oral sex or even intercourse helps me to relax and feel at ease before engaging in anal sex. Something that really helps me to relax the anal sphincters is my partner rubbing my butt cheeks softly, spreading them, and then squeezing them together. That and him teasing my anus very slowly with his fingers and tongue makes sure I’m very ready.

As for positions, though doggie-style may be the most popular anal sex position, missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) allows me to fully relax my anus, making penetration much easier. I describe my favorite variations in 3 Great Anal Sex Positions.

I like my partner to go very slowly while inserting his penis into me. First of all, it allows the anal sphincters to gradually adjust. Secondly, I love the erotic sensation of gradually being filled by his penis. It feels like I’m swallowing him. I really like to control the pace by being the one to slowly push back on him at the pace I’m ready to take him.

Anal penetration is an entirely different feeling than vaginal penetration. There’s a lot more pressure just before actual penetration. First, there’s an intense feeling of pressure as the head presses against you, which builds up a feeling of anticipation. Then there’s a release of pure pleasure as the head slips through. You really notice the change in diameter as the head moves inside. You feel the length of the shaft sliding in with every nerve ending you can imagine. If you’re relaxed enough, it feels amazing when he gets through the second sphincter.

One of the most exquisite sensations for me of anal sex is when he pulls out and then slides back in the first time. The in-stroke is intensely sensual. I love slow at first, but there comes a point where I want to him to speed up and just take me hard and fast. It’s then that I feel completely full. The sensation is very different from having him in my vagina. Everything is so very tight, and the pressure is what causes the pleasure. The anal passage is being stimulated while at the same time there is pressure on my G-spot through the wall of the vagina.

I can orgasm rather quickly after penetration, especially since I usually rub my clitoris once he’s inside me. it’s an amazing feeling to squeeze my partner’s penis as my anal muscles contract around him. I usually climax so hard and squeeze him so tightly that he has a hard time moving because the sensation is so intense for him. If he stays inside me after I’ve had one orgasm, I can usually have another although I prefer to return to a slower pace for a while until we build up again. When he ejaculates, it’s much better because I can actually feel him shoot whereas, vaginally, I usually can’t.

Anal sex can feel absolutely incredible. It’s different in sensation – it’s deep inside, it’s not the clitoris, and isn’t in the vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of the body. It doesn’t feel like anything else you may have felt before. Women who don’t enjoy anal sex are probably doing it wrong.

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  49. I think that one thing that is overlooked is the effect of anal intercourse on the womb.

    During sex a women’s womb becomes engorged with blood and frequently doubles or triples in size. Hitting the cervix generally is painful. However, when a penis goes in the anal canal it goes up behind behind the womb and rubs on the back side of the womb. A man can actually insert his finger deep into the anal canal and feel or rub the back of the womb.

    I used to date a girl who loved anal. One night we were warming up I inserted my finger deep and gentley started massaging the back of her womb. She would not let me take it out — she must have climaxed 10 times — each time body convulsing.

    I have discover this on about 4 or 5 other women that I have had anal sex with. And I think this is also why women who climax during anal intercourse say it is a deeper climax or a whole body climax. I have also discussed this with an OB/Gyn friend of mine and she agrees that the womb is one of the most sensitive and overlooked sex organs.

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  50. I’ve never heard about the womb as being a sex organ. Interesting.

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