Anal sex is a firm favorite with many men and women, and there are lots of sex positions in which you can try it. Two important aspects of a good anal sex position are that it allows the woman to be relaxed and physically comfortable, and that it gives the man access to the area. Because anal sex is a much slower form of penetrative sex, it’s important to find a position that you’re comfortable in and isn’t too taxing on your body. Below are three great anal sex positions.
1) Knees on Chest: The knees on chest position, with the woman lying on her back with her legs up, can be a great first-time sex position. Both partner’s bodies are close to the “ground,” which allows for more relaxation and less work. It also allows for plenty of physical touching, which is so important to women during anal sex. Placing a pillow under the woman’s lower back can be helpful.
2) Cocoon: If you’ve already tried anal sex, here’s a position to get your man deeper inside than ever before. Lie on the bed with your bottom on the edge and your legs raised. Make sure you have a pillow or two under your pelvis to make it easier for him to penetrate your anus.
With your man standing in front of you, bend your knees and rest your feet on his chest while he begins to enter your anus very slowly. Once he’s inside to the depth that’s comfortable for you, speed up or slow down the thrusting as you like.
2) Jack Hammer: Even though the name suggests fast, hard thrusting, you can mix it up for varying sensations To perform the Jack Hammer, put some pillows underneath your butt and lower back, and then hoist both of your legs over your man’s shoulders as he kneels between your legs.
Your man should take it easy to begin with and insert his penis an inch at a time, checking to make sure you’re is comfortable at each stage. He doesn’t even have to fully insert his penis in this anal position, as the tip of his penis will be squeezed by your tight anal sphincter muscles, which will be enjoyable for you too.
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation than vaginal sex. It is also often a “first time for everything” type of activity which can also be nice – doing something you’ve never done before, ever. If you’re considering trying anal sex for the first time, make sure that you follow the 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex. Practice makes perfect, and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.
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