How to Stay Hard during a Threesome

A male reader asks Nina and Rita the following question:

My girlfriend and I have talked about having a threesome for several years. Recently a friend of hers (female) came into town. The two of them dated years ago and we decided to all sleep together. My question is this. After years of dreaming of being with two women, when it actually came time I was having erectile issues. I’m 30 and have never had this problem before. I was very attracted to her friend and loved watching them together, but I couldn’t get it up. I realize that I was nervous to some extent but thought I was ready. Needless to say, I am extremely embarrassed. Especially after my girl talked up our great sex life to her friend. If I should ever be lucky enough to experience this again, do you have any tips?

Nina and Rita suggest the easy solution:

What happened to you occurs frequently among men of all ages who find themselves in a new or unusual sexual situation. This is definitely about nerves. You need to get yourself some Viagra. You can tell your doctor any kind of story, but the next time you’ve got a threesome starting in your bedroom, pop one of those pills and you’ll be good to go. Read more

My own advice would be different. Don’t worry about getting it up, especially if the women want to enjoy each other. Watch them make out, join in when there’s an “opening,” and let nature take its course. If a man treats being in bed with two hot women as an experience instead of a performance, he will eventually relax and “rise” to the occasion.

Of course, if that doesn’t work, there’s always Viagra.

2 Responses

  1. keep viagra on a close table, it will make yourself not to worry about the issue as you know you can always hand it if needed. Granted you wont to take any and will find yourself confident enough

  2. Why encourage the side effects associated with Viagra? Also, Viagra comes in three strengths, so he has a 1 in 3 chance of getting the right dose-positive effect with little to no side effects. Try an adjustable cock ring. It becomes an interactive activity, has been proven over time, does not require 15-30 minutes to be metabolized, and can be cut off at home versus going to the ER/ED if things go wrong.

    Also, the hand and tongue are great sex organs in this situation, and one if not both will have to be used in a threesome anyway. With age comes wisdom.

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